Monogamy, at its core, is about sexual fidelity, or rather, sexual fidelity is the one thing you need to be monogamous. Everything else is optional, like marriage, or living together, or not living with other people, or who you share secrets with, and so on. We can also see this in the contrapositive: having more than one sexual partner is by definition nonmonogamous. In other words, monogamy is actually "all about the sex", or rather who you have sex with is monogamy's first and most crucial requirement.
Thought-provoking essay on polyamory
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Photos and write-up of this year's Trans Day of Visibility celebration in San Francisco.
Photos and write-up of yesterday's San Francisco Arts Advocacy Day.