Little did I know that only a couple of months later I would drop out of school due to illness (chronic fatigue syndrome). The following year was difficult, trying to work full-time at clerical jobs on campus while having very little energy. Meanwhile, having decided law school was not for me, I decided to apply to library school, but the Cal program was closed for two years to modernize the curriculum.
By that time I was feeling better and too used to earning money to go back to school. I found a new career in tech support and, later, web development, working at Cal for five years and then UCSF for ten. I married, divorced, moved from Berkeley to El Cerrito to Albany back to Berkeley and finally to San Francisco with boyziggy, who I then married.
After my third and final web development job at UCSF proved too much to handle, I quit, took some time off, and started a freelance photography business. While rewarding in some ways, this proved to be a bad career move as it relied much more on sales and marketing than on actual photography skills. This month I officially stopped taking on new clients.
I'm now entering the next phase of my life, focusing on providing food to the hungry. I'd already been volunteering with Food Not Bombs for over a year, cooking and sharing vegan food. I'm now taking on additional volunteer duties at the Free Farm and Free Farm Stand, where I help grow the food as well as distribute it. Eventually I may need or want to seek conventional paid work again, but for now I am happy and lucky to be in a place, thanks to boyziggy's steady employment, that I can volunteer my time to help people in need, and do so in a way that aligns perfectly with my values.