The venue is Jelly's in San Francisco. Jelly's is at 295 Terry Francois Blvd., Pier 50, near the ballpark. I haven't been there yet, but they seem to have a full bar, and there are plenty of places to eat in the area. The N-Judah MUNI metro and Caltrain stop nearby at 4th and Townsend if you're taking public transit; not sure about the parking situation.
Suggested donation is $10-$20 to benefit Blue Bear; no one turned away for lack of funds. Hope to see you there!